Thursday, December 17, 2009

Yeah, I just graduated. No big deal.

Alright ladies and gentlemen, this is to announce that I am back from my not-so-brief hiatus there, most of which was spent preventing nervous breakdowns and trying to not look like something the cat dragged in. Attempts at the first were successful; the second -- not so much. (Thank God for kaajal though - camouflages those humongous dark cirles.)

Here's a snapshot of my life, as it is now:
  1. I am no longer a Boston University graduate student. I am, in fact, a Boston University - wait for it - alumna. A-l-u-m-n-a. Alumna, you hear me? Sounds all fancy schmancy, eh? I don't know how to feel about that. No clue. I don't think it has hit me yet.
  2. Technically speaking, I am still ten days away from graduation. That's when all the grades come in. But, I think somewhere along my academic career, I learned how not to flunk courses.
  3. If you think I cannot be officially called a graduate till the actual ceremony, then I still have 5 months to go because BU ceremonies are held in May. That's when I'll get to wear the scarlet robe, get to see the family (yay!) and walk on stage when they call out the College of Communication Graduate Public Relations Class of 2010. That is also when I will pester my brother to click photos of me while I do stereotypical-graduate-y things like throw my hat in the air. I will then secretly hope that my mother will frame that photograph proudly on the dining room wall back home, but of course, I will pretend I don't care.
  4. In six minutes from now, I will no longer be a Writing Fellow. That makes me sad. I worked at COM's Writing Center throughout my course, and to say that I loved it, would be an understatement. This was my first real "job" (part-time, but what the heck -- everything else has been an internship), and I could not have asked for a better first job.
  5. Which means, I now need another job. And I've begun looking. I'd really like to stick around for a year or two before I make my way back to The Desh. So please step up all those prayers for speedy economic recovery on this side of the world. Bad economy --> no jobs --> no work visas --> one-way ticket to India.
  6. I think about what my life was when I first came here, and I think about it now. And I can see how it's changed, and how I've changed. And I'm so thankful that my life was -- is -- good. I'm glad I came here, I'm glad I made all these friends, I'm glad BU is the way it is, and I'm glad Daddy Dearest was willing to file for bankruptcy, if need be, to pay for this degree. Now all I have to do is pay him back.
Only about $75,000 dollars.

No big deal.

29 people had something to say:

Purely Narcotic said...

Congratulations! :D

And good luck with the job hunting. Maybe you should move to CA, you know. ;)

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

@ PN: Thank you, thank you! And just so you know, I'm applying like crazy for jobs out there :)

Geetika said...

Congratulations!! :)
I like the CA idea, whee! But I will also be the spoilsport and talk about the state being the worst hit during this recession, but the bright side, you can buy a house cheap! :) Come to CA, yes!

Tuition fee here is phenomenally high :-\ Hope you get a job and pay it all back soon!! :)

Lol @ I will pretend to not care if the picture is framed :D

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

@ Geetika: Yes, yes I like the idea too :D And don't remind me. Ugh. BU waise hi itni expensive hai. Must earn. Must pay Daddy back!

Arslan said...

Congratulations! Good luck and isn't the singular form alumnus? I hope it's not a US/British english thing..

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

@ Arslan: Hehe thanks. "Alumna" is the female singular :) "alumnus" the male.

Thank you again :)

Arslan said...

That's a relief! Coz I've been calling myself an alumnus for so long now.. And though I've heard alumnus used by everyone else as well, I didn't want to bet against a Brown University Post Graduate in Public Relations Class of 2010.. :D

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

DUDE -- BOSTON University! Not Brown! :P

Arslan said...

LOL! I don't know what I was thinking... Well, actually, you can guess..

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

The alumnus-alumna thing, yes, I know :P

Arslan said...

That would be a good title for a love story..

Netika Lumb said...

Hey.. CONGRATULATIONS!!!
So you're "smaller" than me(yeah.. I used smaller.. some people do it.. I wanted to see if this only a grammatical error or they derive something special outa this :P)..

Just so that you know, you're the first woman(okay, GIRL),'smaller' than me, whose attitude I give a thumbs up to :)

Pankaj said...

Congratulations!!! Wow, so you become a journalist now. I bet you'll become an amazing one.

<<<< big time jealous!

a traveller said...

Woohoo! :D

Congratulations!

The Juggernaut said...

congrats =)

and about the whopping sum =) 75000$...no comments =P

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

@ Netika: I'm not "smaller" :P Aren't you close to 20? I'm going to be 24 in a couple of months! And thank you :)

@ Pankaj: Not a journalist, bud -- a PR practitioner :) still jealous? :P

@ Ra: thank you!

@ Juggernaut: Which is why I need that job! lol

Netika Lumb said...

Oh.. So you're bigger :D
My bad!!

Nothingman said...

Congratos!!

Try mashable.com for jobs. They have weekly listings.

and enjoy :)

N

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

@ Nothingman: Yes, yes. They have been bookmarked Thank you! :)

Ramit said...

Netika is so funny! I so knew how old she in already hehe!

Congratulations! Life's good! Have a ball in CA! It rocks!

(I have a soft spot for CA anyways!)

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

Ramit: Hahaha, I think she got confused by a comment I'd left on her blog a couple of days ago :) And I'm really looking forward to CA -- my first time there! :)

marina said...

Hay did yall know that ICICI Fellows is looking for the top youth talent in the country. They will also give a fixed monthly stipend of Rs. 12,000 and travel reimbursement by Tier III AC in train and a medical insurance of Rs 1 Lakh per year. To know more about it check out their site www.icicifellows.org?um=1

AJai said...

hey congratulations.
i'm sure ppl at BU are grateful that u r gone. :P

and abt the future... come back to India... this country needs good ppl.

all the best... follow ur heart. have fun

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

@ Ajai: Oh, I'm coming back for sure. Go read my other blog, I wrote something about it wahaan pe. America is nice, but home is where the heart is :)

Lavender said...

You know what I like the best about this post?

I hope my frames it while I pretend not to care :)

narendra shenoy said...

Congratulations and all the best! I'm sure you will do awesomely well!

Cheers

amreekandesi said...

Congrats on the graduation!

And at $75k, the degree better be printed on 14k gold plated special paper from Egypt.

ani_aset said...

prayers for you and congrats :)

Absolutely Normal Chaos said...

@ Lavender: Haha, thanks. It is true though, lol. Thanks for stopping by :)

@ Mr Shenoy: Thank you so much! Appreciate the wishes :)

@ AD: I know what you mean, man. I know what you mean. This paying back business is going to be tough. But I got it! :) Thanks.

@ Ani: Thank you so much! :)